Looking Back


This week I achieved a milestone that seems to elude most people. I celebrated thirty years of marriage with the same woman. I preface this statement by saying that it’s really been thirty five if you count the wind chill. There were a few cold years smattered in there.

As I uploaded my wedding pictures to share with family and friends, I made present day comparisons to my youthful bygone years. It looks like I ran for President of the United States. Instead of a full mop of red hair, it’s now extremely gray. I have more chins than a Chinese phone book and I’m twice the man my wife married. I define old age in this manner; it’s when your broad mind and narrow waist change places. I’m grateful God kept my bride youthful and energetic. The only thing I possess greater than her is my eyesight. It’s a winning combination though; she can wheel me to the Bingo parlor and I can read the game card. On second thought since I eschew gambling, we’ll just play for a fifty-cent coupon off Jello.

As I reflect on my present life, I weigh the good with the bad. I’m grateful as a couple we are still hot; thanks to our God given hormones. I envy those few and far between friends who still have bodies that twenty-something’s would envy. Reality can be humbling for the rest of us. Recently a 50-plus man joined a health club in order to scope out the young “babes” as he called it. However as he went from machine to machine, he couldn’t figure out how to use it, turn it on, or what it was supposed to do. Walking over to the hard-bodied fitness trainer he asked her, “What machine can I use that would most impress the women?” Looking at his bald head and paunchy belly she said flatly, “The ATM machine in the lobby!”

And that my friends is why I choose to be married to my bride of thirty years, she’s still impressed. And me? Why she impresses me even more.

Posted in My Thoughts on Today | Tagged | 1 Comment

A Love Story Still in the Making


30 years ago today, August 5, a love story began in Cleburne, Texas and it’s still going strong today. Since pictures speak a thousand words, I’ll let them speak for my blog today.

I got Him

The Couple

Bride & Flower Girl

Flight

Bridesmaids

Groomsman

Posted in My Thoughts on Today | Tagged | 2 Comments

The Difference Between Bold and Stupid


During church this week I asked each of our church’s children if they could tell me the definition of bold and additionally the word stupid. I got some funny responses but I also received some intuitive ones. For the word bold they responded with brave and courage. With the word stupid they said, foolish and crazy. Each of their definitions were true and insightful but they were missing one key element.

Years ago at the tender age of six, I was visiting my grandparents at their home. My sister had locked my brother and me out of the house and that had made me angry. To add insult to injury, she stood behind the storm door window and laughed and mocked me. To this day I can’t remember why I did it, but I tied a towel around my neck. In my mind I had instantly become Superman. I could now right the injustices of the world, and at that moment that included opening a locked door with a single bound. Running with my arm outstretched in front of me, I ran directly for the locked storm door. As quickly as I had begun racing toward my objective, the mission was over. With the sound of crashing glass, I had promptly placed my fist through the storm window. The door could now be unlocked.

My sister came running as did my grandfather. As shocked as they were to see the broken glass, they were more shocked that I had nary a scratch on my arm. While I suffered no injury to my hand, I can tell you however that another part of my body smarted the rest of the afternoon.

The point of my story is boldness and stupidity is separated by one thing; and that is God. History records many individuals who have claimed to have had God on their side but the results of their efforts proved otherwise.

George Washington’s private secretary was named Robert Lewis. During the first years of Washington’s presidency, he witnessed his boss’s private devotions first hand. He said they occurred both in the morning and in the evening. Seeing the President kneeling before an open Bible in the Mount Vernon library, Lewis said the President would get up each morning at 4 am to devote time in prayer.

I dare say our very nation would not have seen such early success and won key battles for it’s independence, without such a brave and principled man devoting time in seeking God’s guidance. If this formula worked so well for President Washington in forming our nation, would it not still today? I hear a lot of people say what this country needs is “bold and decisive leadership.” But if it doesn’t include God, wouldn’t that be defined as stupid?

Posted in My Thoughts on Today | Tagged | Leave a comment

My Observation on the Border Crisis


Growing up as a twin, birthday celebrations always included going out the day of my birthday and inviting all the kids from my neighborhood over for an impromptu cake and ice cream social. My mother never wanted to plan a party because that meant with a tight budget, we’d have to buy gifts for all the other kids when their birthdays came around. It was a frugal choice but the correct one; you can’t buy gifts and feed everyone.

This summer the tsunami of illegal immigrants crossing our borders has in essence, popped the collective balloons of the nation’s party. U.S. Officials have learned quickly that citizen ‘parents’ don’t want to pay for this party where the guest list far outstrips the proverbial cake and ice cream.

Ask anyone who has purchased a meal for a homeless person or placed them in a hotel for a night, we want to do it because in reality most people have a heart. But Americans draw the line when that same homeless person muscles their way into the house, doesn’t want to leave, and forces everyone to call him Uncle Bob. Most people like to give gifts, but when that person no longer says thank you and “expects” it, our generosity wanes.

Jesus tells us in the Good Book that the “poor will always be among us.” That means no matter what we do collectively or legislatively, we will NEVER end the world’s sufferings. I see politicians decrying the public backlash against this onslaught of wannabe Americans. They criticize protesters as “heartless, and un-American, but what I don’t see is any of those same legislators taking these same young illegal immigrants into their own homes or towns. They just want us to do all the sacrificing.

When I think of the current immigration crisis I recall a story of the American West. An Indian guide and cowboy were commissioned to scout out an area for possible homesteaders. Due to warring Indian tribes and wild animals, the course they were to take was dangerous. The Indian who knew the area better, promised to take the lead as scout while the cowboy would lag behind to watch for hostile enemies and danger.

It was late afternoon on the second day when the cowboy finally caught up with the Indian. On a crooked path prostrate, the Indian lay with his ear to the ground. The cowboy walking slowly up to him, then heard the Indian saying haltingly with many pauses, “Big Wagon Train, 12 horses, 8 men, 6 women, 3 dogs, 2 cows, and one burro.” Stunned the cowboy exclaimed, “You can tell ALL that by just listening to the ground?” To which the Indian replied, “No, it ran over me an hour ago!”

America, I believe we’ve been run over!

Posted in My Thoughts on Today | Tagged | 2 Comments